I Got Rejected and Joined Online HIV Dating Sites
I'm
going to be sharing my rejection story. Since I was diagnosed, I have always
disclosed my status, and people will say no, it's okay as long as you're taking
your pills and taking your medication and taking care of yourself. Let's do
this, but two weeks down the line, people will leave me and only to find out in
the later stage they could not handle me being positive and them being
negative, but I'm going to be sharing with you guys a story that like I ended
up because I was rejected.
Stopped Believing in Love:
I
ended up not believing in love anymore, and I went to what you call online HIV
Dating. I've also tried online dating because of how people would reject me. My
story went like this in 2013 when I started my medication. I wanted to get into
a relationship because I believed I could continue my life Normally and do
everything I wanted to enjoy dating the pandemic well. By then, it was not
impending for me. Still, yeah, I've given up on a relationship. I'm applying
the glue I've given up in relationships because people wear what you call way.
You need to put this to dry for like 30 seconds.
Joined Online HIV Dating Website:
So
I'm just going to do that quickly. I was dating this person, oh, instead, I was
dating a guy, and then they kept rejecting me. All of those relationships would
not even last More than three months, and that, at some point, made me think,
hurry, maybe I should give up on perhaps I should give up on relationships, but
I stopped dating, and I stopped dating altogether. So i stopped dating entirely
and i think it was somewhere around november if i'm not mistaken i was at work
i was working at my previous company i was working there and this one night i
said to myself like I'm a lover i love loving i love sharing love but then how
like why not try the online dating site because like i also need love man that
an hiv positive doesn't really mean that i must stop living in love and i
registered on this site and i captured everything entered everything my
pictures and what so not everything was excellent and i received a lot of
requests messages so but like that did not entertain me because how HIV Dating Sites would be like i would meet up people from Canada like yeah not anyone
closer because i mean i don't prefer long-distance relationships yeah i would
need like a lot of guys that were interested in me but then the problem was the
distance like you understand people asked me for my cell phone numbers and
whatsoever it was so fun doing that But at some point i was like this is not
going to work.
Rejected For Multiple Times:
Let
me just continue living my life and stop the dating thing. That's when I was
like, I'm not going to give love again another chance because since I've
been diagnosed with HIV, people have just been rejecting
me and telling me that they are okay with it but later or not find out that
they were not okay. So I was like, I'm not going to continue dating. I'm just
giving this dating thing a break. I'm just giving up on relationships overall.
So this other time I received it, I was at work. I think I remember it was
black Friday. If I'm not mistaken, I will be looking down on my mirror, so
yeah, I don't have a steady hand your way. I received an email from our
receptionist, and she told me that Someone had left a message for me and I must
call them back, and then I was like, what the hell? I thought it was a client
terrible because my clients and I would like usually communicate via my emails.
They had my email address and all, but I was just surprised. Why would somebody
want me to call them back via The receptions calling the reception?
I
went to my profile on the dating site and checked my names and all that, and
then he did his research. That's what he told me. He did his research, and then
he went to Facebook. He found me, so what I do is I like putting. I like using
the same picture on most of my social media platforms. He saw the same image
that I had on the profile on the dating site and automatically showed him this
was the person I was looking for, then he checked my profile. What you call on
Facebook, you know with Facebook we write foreign this is where I'm like this
is where I'm working in whatever.
Accepted His Love:
I
have started here whatever school and all of those things, and he looked for
our company's Amma number on the internet. Then he called the reception, and
then he got the reception they asked about, and he asked about me, and they
told him that sevens are lab. He asked if he could leave a message and then ask
them if I must call them back, And I was like, okay, mina, I was sitting
minding my own business. I saw an email from the receptionist saying, “Can you
please call this person? This person called and then they said you must please
call them back in my mind I’m thinking okay maybe it's a client but anyway It's
okay let me call them back i take the phone and then i call them back and and
then he told me his name and then i was like okay how can i help you and henry
is like is this your cell phone number because i called him using my cell phone
numbers And i was like okay you can call me back and then he called me back and
then when before he called me before he was like do you have whatsapp now i'm
starting to think no man this is not a client what is happening why is this
person asking if this my whatsapp numbers and what so not and i was like yeah
these are my whatsapp numbers and then he was like Okay can i call you back
well yeah he called me back and then we spoke and for some few minutes and he
was like can i please talk to you when i finished my work and then give me like
two hours and then i'll be done and i was like okay cool it's okay and then
just after i hang up the phone.
We
started dating, we stayed for about two years with this person, and we are
leading a beautiful life. So if you are getting rejected and want to try dating
sites for HIV-positive people, you must sign in and find love there.
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