Many men complain (and with justification) that sensual activity
declines during the winter months. Those wanting better sensual activity during
the colder times point out that it’s easier for both men and women to feel
sensual when the weather is hot and sultry. Guys who have been practicing
appropriate male organ care all year may still find their members
turning blue from both the cold and the lack of partner-based activity during
the winter.
But guys don’t need to let the winter
doldrums create a lull in their sensual lives. Coupling is an absolutely killer
way to generate body heat and warmth, so the following are a few tips to help
men keep themselves and their partners more receptive to a heated snuggle when
there’s a nip in the air.
Haul
out the candles.
Many women are suckers for a candlelit
evening. The flickering flames practically cry out “Romance!” Plan an evening
with a quiet, candlelit dinner featuring her favorite foods, then follow it up
with a trip to a bedroom that is lit entirely by candlelight. Make sure to
include candles that give off some of her favorite aromas – and remember that
the smell of vanilla is enticing for many people.
Get
fired up.
Candles are one thing; a roaring fire is
another. There’s something about a fireplace filled with burning logs that puts
a woman in a cuddly, romantic mood. Fires aren’t an option for most of the
year, so take advantage of winter’s icy grip to get a spark going in both the
fireplace and your partner.
Get
oiled up.
Muscles tighten up during the cold
weather and physical tension is fatal to a healthy sensual life. When a loved
one comes in out of the cold, offer to give her a tender body massage, complete
with lusciously perfumed oils. As her muscles warm up, so will the rest of her.
Relax
in a bath.
Cold, tight muscles also respond well to
a warm, luxurious bath. There’s nothing quite like snuggling together in a tub
filled with soapy, bubbly water while listening to appropriately sensual music
(Ravel’s “Bolero,” anyone?). It’s even better when a couple takes turns soaping
each other up – all over.
Warm up
the bed.
One of the most uncomfortable things
about winter is climbing on top of cold bed sheets. A man can score points with
his lady love by taking the plunge first; his body heat will transfer to the
sheets, making her entrance into the bed much more comfortable – especially if
the man stays and snuggles with her to exchange even more heat. Since body heat
transfer more directly from bare skin to bare skin, it’s best to perform this
activity unclothed – which will likely lead to other heat-generating
activities.
Use a
heating pad.
Adding a heating pad to the mix will
make the bed even more inviting – especially if one has an aromatherapy pad
that adds delicious scents to the bed experience.
Stay
clothed.
Unclothed sensual activity is wonderful
– but clothed coupling can also be exciting, especially during the winter. Many
women also enjoy an encounter in which the man presents himself unclothed while
the woman remains clothed. There’s a charge created by the contrast between the
two: The man feels powerfully masculine for presenting himself bare while the
woman feels a sense of power from witnessing his bareness while keeping her own
hidden.
This is just the tip of the proverbial
iceberg. There are many other things a couple can do to enjoy better sensual
activity (and more frequent coupling) during the winter months. It will help if
the man is using a first-rate male
organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil),
of course. A healthy manhood is better able to meet the demands of a cold
winter. Many members get dried out skin from the cold weather; a crème that
includes a high-end emollient (think Shea butter) and a natural hydrator like
vitamin E will help to moisturize that issue away. Cold weather can also affect
the blood flow in the body, so a cream that include L-arginine is beneficial;
this ingredient helps boost the creation of nitric oxide, which in turn plays a
role in keeping blood vessels open so blood can flow more freely to the tool.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.