Couples
are enthralled by the idea of simultaneous releases, but sometimes a guy's
excited male organ doesn't want to cooperate in the pursuit of this goal. Of
course, almost any sensual activity is enjoyable and worthwhile, especially
when a man is taking appropriate steps to ensure good male
organ health. However, for those who are interested in pursuing
simultaneous releases, the following tips may prove beneficial.
Tip
#1: Be in the right frame of mind.
Many
men approach the pursuit of a simultaneous release in the wrong frame of mind.
They may be fearful or feel guilty because they think they tend to finish too
fast, or they may feel resentment because they think their partner takes too
long to finish. Either (or both) of these attitudes adds unnecessary pressure.
Couples will be more successful if they approach the pursuit as a fun activity,
like a game. If they achieve the goal, that's great; if they don't – hey, a
pleasurable release is still a pleasurable release, no matter how it's timed.
And sensual activity with a partner is an excellent way to bond.
Tip
#2: Be mutual for a while.
Many
couples find it is helpful to spend a few sessions engaging in mutual manual
stimulation before attempting a coupling-driven simultaneous release. The goal
here is for each partner to play with him/herself, communicating how close they
each are to finishing and trying to achieve a simultaneous release through
manual stimulation before moving on to penetration.
Tip
#3: Take time with pre-play.
In
most couples, the male finishes before the female. The average time between
penetration and release for the male is five to six minutes; for the female, it
is usually twelve to twenty. There are exceptions, of course, but in the
typical relationship, a man needs to take plenty of time to manually stimulate
his lady friend.
Tip
#4: Go oral.
A
man should definitely include oral pleasuring as one of his pre-play
techniques. This can be especially effective if he fingers the woman while
performing orally. The "double stimulation" can help add to the level
of pleasure she experiences.
Tip
#5: Vibrate.
The
use of a vibrating device should also be considered during the pre-play stages.
A woman may wish to apply the vibrating device herself during penetration as
well; however, care must be taken that the device does not overstimulate the
male organ.
Tip
#6: Double up.
Some
men are able to maintain firmness after releasing and continue on for another
round; “going for two” may be a good way to achieve simultaneous satisfaction
with a partner (while getting a second finish out of it as well).
Tip
#7: Be well positioned.
Couples
should explore positions and see which one(s) are most conducive to achieving
their goal. For many, a woman-on-top position is preferable.
Tip
#8: Interrupt if necessary.
Whatever
position is chosen, partners should communicate about how close they are to
releasing. If they are far apart on this journey, the coupling should be
interrupted and the partner closer to finishing should pay some manual or oral
attention to the other partner.
Tip
#9: Practice makes perfect.
Above
all, partners shouldn't be discouraged if they don't reach a synchronized
release right away; trying should be part of the fun, while success is the
icing on the cake.
All
the sensual activity in pursuit of simultaneous releases may turn that excited
male organ into a sore (if very happy) one. Regularly using a quality male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) with a combination of moisturizers can
help; a cream that includes both Shea butter and vitamin E is an excellent
choice. It's also helpful if the cream contains vitamin C, which aids in
collagen production and tissue elasticity. Look for L-arginine on the
ingredient list, too; this substance is involved in the production of nitric
oxide, which in turns help keep manhood blood vessels relaxed and open.
Maintaining a healthier tool is a goal all men can achieve.
Visit
http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most
common male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity, and
what to do to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer
who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.