Prostate Stimulation 101

Let's cut to the chase – have you tried prostate stimulation? If yes, good job. If not, let me tell you, you should give it a shot.

This little gland might be tiny, but it's mighty and shouldn't be underestimated. This guide will help you understand the pleasure of the prostate and the various sexual and overall health benefits that come with it. Get ready to become an expert in P-spot pleasure!

First off, let's bust a common myth: interest in anal pleasure and prostate stimulation isn't just limited to the LGBTQIA+ community. Despite unfairly stigmatizing straight men in the past for enjoying such activities, prostate pleasure is purely about anatomy. Let's celebrate the desire for pleasure and self-exploration!

Now that we've cleared that up, let's dive into the details.

What is the prostate and how do you find it?

The prostate, a small and soft organ about the size of a walnut, is a vital part of the male reproductive system. Positioned deep in the pelvis, between the penis and bladder, it's on the other side of the rectum. To locate it, insert a finger into the rectum and curl the fingertip towards the front of the body, similar to the "come hither" motion used on the G-spot. When aroused, the prostate swells as it fills with fluid released during ejaculation. With the addition of familiar pleasure, identifying it becomes easier.

How does it feel?

In short, it feels good. The P-spot can be compared to the G-spot for vulva owners. Stimulating the prostate leads to more intense orgasms and enhanced sexual experiences, activating deep pelvic floor and sphincter muscles during climax.

Similar to G-spot stimulation, many people enjoy simultaneous stimulation (e.g., clit stimulation combined with penetration). Consider combining prostate stimulation with penis stimulation for broader and more intense orgasms.

Getting Started

Embarking on any anal exploration requires a step-by-step approach.

1. Clean your external buttocks with soap and water to prepare the area. Empty your bowels by using the bathroom, and consider using a douche or enema for additional preparation.

2. Relax those tight muscles. Engage in foreplay, such as kissing, oral sex, or penetrative intercourse. Incorporate external stimulation to enhance relaxation.

3. Prioritize lubrication. Whether you're starting with fingers or gradually progressing to larger objects, always use plenty of lube to ensure smooth and comfortable exploration.

4. Take it slow and steady. Despite thorough preparation, it may take some time to feel comfortable. Be patient with yourself or your partner, maintaining open communication to ensure everyone enjoys the experience.

5. Find the P-spot. Before diving into anal play, explore and familiarize yourself with the prostate's location and pleasure points. Once you're familiar with the geography, you can add some fun to your experience.

6. Start with small steps. Beginning with fingers is a great starting point. As comfort increases, progress to experimenting with anal training kits, vibrating toys, anal beads, butt plugs, and more substantial items!

There you have it. Now you're ready to begin your prostate stimulation journey!