Fear is The Biggest Obstacle in Life...
February 2, 2009
"Fear is The Biggest Obstacle in Life"
For these reasons, I always say that fear is the biggest obstacle in your life - not your financial situation, your upbringing, your daily nine-to-five grind................And your fears are generally unfolded........
Think about what l have just stated when you take the time to analyze what you have done in the past to help your success and what have you done to hinder it. You will recognize changes you could have made and steps you could have taken to make your life more remarkable.
But l have something to share with you and l am firm on this demand: You need to stop dwelling in the past. Otherwise you will never make full use of your great potential that we all have within our self.............
You need to focus your mind and actions on the future, in order to move forward you need to look at your past, "BUT" At be lament about past failures or any aspect of your past. So have a good look at your life in a very objective way and determine what you can do right away to start making positive changes.....
My mind is working over time, l was thinking about this all day today and then l decided to write about it. I had few members at work and l was listening to them when l came up with this after hearing all they had to say......
I told them that the pass is something that you will never change but the only thing you could do from the past is learn from it.......I used some of my failures and told them what l was going through they just looked at me................See it works and l walked away................
Joseph F. Botelho
l look forward to having you on my team
Comments (105)
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
well it certainly seems that way........................DELETE ALL HIS COMMENTS FROM YOUR BLOGS ...........some people have too much time on there hands..............
Jean DAndrea
7
Retired
He's been everywhere ! :-)
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Hi Jenn,
Longtime................you also notice how busy he has been..........perhaps he will learn how it works on here...........??????????..........then again perhaps not.............
Jennifer Underwood
11
Promoter
LOL Joseph!!!!
Nathan sure has been a busy man!
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Nathan............
ok l give up................WHY!!!!
Nathan Ramsey
4
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Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
I THINK ALL OF THEM BALL PLAYERS SHOULD READ THIS BLOG AND PERHAPS THEY WOULD LEARN SOMETHING FROM IT..................competitve edge is here not in drugs that is called cheating..................
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
FEAR CAN BE YOUR BIGGEST MOTIVATER IN LIFE....................if you allow yourself to react to your fear when it faces you.................
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Hi James,
Very well said faith will out last any fear you may have..............thank you makes perfect sense you may need to said it a few times before you truly understand this concept............
James Williams Jr
8
Thank you for your words of wisdom. Indeed "fear" has been the downfall of many great men and women. I have found that the greatest enemy of the fear of failure is faith in our success.
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Well said and it can provide more then one can honestly imagine...................FEAR at times is a good thing it all depends on how you control it....
Rocky Pacley
7
Fear is a good thing and the ability to recognize any emotion
is a gift.
Imagine having feeling and not knowing what these feelings
are.
When you look at it identifying any emotion the explanation
is what gives the identity.
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Hi Jerry,
Your so right with your comment.................thank you for sharing it with us
Jerry Navarro
3
Webmaster
Joseph, yes, dwelling with past leads us to nowhere. Fear is just the absense of courage, let this not be the stumbling block of our future.
Thanks for the article.....
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
That is very specail to know who you are and understand yourself as well as your ability. I am gald you have the ability of never to be afraid what is in the way.
You need to be very focused in what you see and think and things seem to then fall into place.
Glad you enjoyed this blog.....
Sheila Thomas
6
Thanks Josephs for being the person that you are. Fear does tend to dwell amongst us. Fear also can bring a person's self esteem down if they allow it . I have recently overcame fear by learning from my past and learning from it. But still have the tendency to let things easily distracted me in more ways than one. Fear knows when to step right in and take full control. I call this mind over matter. If we say to ourselves that we are an achiever in spite of all that we have been through in the pa
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Hi Davied,
If you don't have fear then you have nothing to fear about, fear can help us in ways that are really hard to explain, it can motivate you, it can create stress for you and your loved ones it can do a lot.
But the key is to know how to control your inner fear and make it work for you and take advantage of the fear.
David Schupbach
7
Great Article Joseph. You have so much to share, and we are so glad! The hardest thing sometimes is admitting you HAVE fear. D
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Thank you Lynn, I though l was the only one who listen and read Deepak Chopra:
he is one great speaker and filled with nothing but the fines Insperational quotes one could ever listen too.
Thank you for sharing this with us............
Joseph Botelho
15
Working on one project at a time.
Like that Quote Jean.....................thank you for sharing it!!!