Most guys
associate male organ size – both length and girth – with the ability to satisfy
partners. While the connection really isn’t so solid, there is something to be
said for a thick male organ. Many women enjoy having the whole female canal
stimulated at once, and a wide male organ is more able to accommodate this.
That being said, the thickness of the member can cause difficulties in the
bedroom. In the interest of female and male
organ care, as well as maximizing pleasure, girthy guys should take into
account the following tips.
Lubrication is key.
Female canal tearing and male organ chafing are two unfortunate
but common consequences of lovemaking, particularly if the lovemaking is rough
or if it goes on for some time. While these things occur regardless of male
organ size, a thicker manhood is more likely to stretch a female organ beyond
its comfort zone and incur greater friction itself from complete contact with
the canal.
That’s why lubrication is of the utmost importance for
wide-membered guys and their partners. While some tearing and chafing may still
result, it will be much less than if inadequate lubrication is present.
Partners can treat this necessity as a reason to engage in
exciting and perhaps lengthy pre-play. Really build up the suspense – this will
make sure she’s wet as can be before penetration. And don’t underestimate the
importance of having a product on stand-by; even women who produce ample
natural lubrication are likely to dry out eventually, especially during lengthy
sessions. Do lube checks during position changes, and, if she’s dry, either
engage in more non-penetrative play or use a product to make sure she’s slick
before re-entry.
Pick positions wisely.
For some women, taking a thick male organ is no problem. But
many may find it a challenge. It’s a good idea to think about what positions
may be most comfortable for her. Here are a couple of considerations:
1) Positions that put her in control of penetrative depth, angle
and speed can ensure that she’s feeling more pleasure than pain. If she likes
being on top, then that’s a good place to start. She can ride in traditional girl-on-top
style, or mix it up with reverse cowgirl or the lotus. The lotus is a position
in which both partners are sitting cross-legged and facing one another; her
legs are crossed behind the man’s back, and their chests are pressed against
one another. Very intimate!
2) Positions in which her legs are spread will make her canal
wider and better able to accommodate a thick male organ. Try doggy style with
her legs spread wide, or missionary with her legs either out to the side or up
in the air in a V-shape.
Get large barriers.
Barrier protection sizes are based on girth, not length. Men
with wide male organs – generally, a circumference greater than 5.1” – should
invest in large-sized barriers. Poorly-fitting barriers are more susceptible to
slipping off or breaking, so getting the size right is crucial.
Manage chafing.
Sometimes using adequate lube just isn’t enough to protect the
male organ skin from chafing. Men can take several measures to make sure their
skin is kept smooth, supple and healthy:
- Wash with warm water, not hot. Hot water can dry out the skin,
leaving it susceptible to chafing.
- Don’t use harsh soaps. Warm water is usually sufficient for
cleaning the male organ. If a guy insists on soaping up, make sure to use a
natural, gentle cleanser.
- Moisturize.
Using a male organ health crème (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil) with
a combination of natural moisturizers like Shea butter and vitamin E is a great
way to keep the skin hydrated, protecting it against various types of friction
and the dryness that often follows. Applying a moisturizer every day will make
a big difference in skin condition, allowing men to recover faster from
soreness after lovemaking and helping them be ready for the next romp.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com
for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on
improving organ sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy manhood. John
Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an
ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.