When
it comes to sensual activity, going from a soft to a hard male organ is
relatively easy for most men; the equipment is right out there in plain sight
and the mechanics behind it are not terribly complex. Assuming that the owner
of the equipment has taken steps to ensure optimal male
organ health, pleasure is usually just a few strokes away. But
sensual satisfaction can sometimes be a bit more complicated for the female
partner; all men have heard of the mysterious sweet spot, which seems to hold
the key to providing ultimate pleasure. Unfortunately, sometimes men have a
difficult time accessing this treasure chest of delight.
The
sweet spot
The
sweet spot is the nickname for the Gräfenberg spot, named after the
gynecologist who initially reported on it. The sweet spot is generally
considered a part of the female organ, although there is some disagreement in
the scientific-medical community as to whether the sweet spot actually exists
and, if it does, exactly what it is.
However,
those who accept the sweet spot as a distinct area of female sensual anatomy
locate it between one and three inches inside the female organ, to the side of
the urethra and the bladder and on the top of the female organ wall.
While
some have reported that the sweet spot is a small bump or raised area of
tissue, others have found there is no noticeable surface difference in the area
defined as the sweet spot, although there may be differences in the neural
connections in the area.
Advance
Play
A
woman is more likely to achieve sweet spot-derived releases when an appropriate
amount of advance play is involved. Couples should experiment with various
forms of advance play to determine the best manner in which the woman's sweet
spot can be stimulated. For example, it is usually best to remember that
advance play is not limited to (and often should not begin with) manual or oral
stimulation of the sensual organ. For many women, a good deal of hugging,
kissing and caressing is as important as using one’s finger just outside the
female organ.
Once
the advance play has moved to the sensual organ, the man should allow the
partner to guide him as he experiments with different strokes and rhythms. Many
women enjoy the sensation of gentle rubbing of her organ opening. Eventually,
the man may insert a finger into the opening. Once inside, he should gently
crook the finger back and forth; if the woman is on her back, the sweet spot is
going to be located on the top of the female organ wall, so this crooking
motion should touch the area and provide stimulation.
As
stated before, the man should let his partner guide him to determine if he is
being too rough, too gentle, too fast, too slow, etc.
Love-Making
Because
of its location, stimulation of the sweet spot during intimate play can be
difficult. The missionary position, which is typically used by many couples,
doesn't allow the male organ to touch the sweet spot in the most direct manner.
There is usually more success in accessing the sweet spot when utilizing the
missionary position if the woman's hips are propped up by pillows or other
supports.
In
general, sweet spot access is more easily achieved when the woman is on top or
in "doggy" style position.
The
Goal
The
sweet spot has become something of a Holy Grail in coupling. It's important to
remember that a woman can have a perfectly happy romantic life without every
achieving a sweet spot release. Fixating on this rather than enjoying sensual
activity as a way to bond with another person can be damaging.
Whether
searching for the sweet spot or not, a man needs to make sure his hard male
organ is also a healthy one; using a nourishing male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) may assist in keeping one's member in
good health. The best creams are those that contain manhood-supportive
ingredients such as L-arginine, which may boost the nitric oxide that keeps
member blood vessels open and flowing. Another essential ingredient is acetyl
L-carnitine, the neuroprotective properties of which may restore lost
sensitivity to an organ that has been handled too roughly.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ
health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity, and what to do to maintain
a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's
health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.