What to plan for your first date?
Nervous about planning your first date? Read on to find out
all that you can do to make sure it’s a success.
·
Pick a
convenient location
The first thing to keep in mind is to pick
a centralized location that is convenient for the both of you. Make sure it is
closer to her and the vicinity is known. Not everyone is comfortable going with
strangers to an unknown spot. That could go wrong in a couple of ways,
especially if she is the over-cautious type. It’s better to play safe with a
known and nearby location to save time
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Take her
preferences into consideration
Take her preferences, likes, dislikes into
consideration while planning. An outdoorsy person will not enjoy something too
simple done at home. Similarly, an introvert will definitely not like being
pulled out of her comfort zone on the first date itself. So decide accordingly
after you get a fair idea of the kind of person they are. If you plan to date
a Ukrainian woman, you will definitely have to keep this point in mind
as they can be feisty and quite choosy about dates.
·
Choose an
activity that leaves room for talking
Avoid loud and noisy places like pubs,
music festivals or other crowded places where talking will be a problem. Your
first date needs to have a lot more conversation than activity so pick a spot
and an activity that leaves room for talking. Focusing on the activity and not
enough talking will leave you feeling like you didn’t really give any time or
attention to the person as was supposed to be the purpose. It doesn’t have to
be boring but the focus needs to be on talking.
·
Keep it
affordable
Do not plan something too extravagant. For
starters, you will burn a hole in your pocket. Secondly, if the date does not
go well, it will leave the other person feeling awkward and embarrassed that
you spent so much on a futile attempt. Avoid that situation for the both of you
and keep the budget reasonable.
A
few date ideas you can try out
·
Create a
picnic
If your date is from Ukraine dating site, then you would
definitely need time to get to know them properly. This is a classic and loved
by all. Create your own little picnic in a park or lawn. Stop by a grocery
store and shop for items to eat together. That way you have already included an
activity – shopping, and will also have a lot of time to talk and get to know
each other better. So it’s a win-win.
·
Visit a
pet club
Pet clubs are really common these days. They are places of relaxation
where you get to play with and cuddle with cats and dogs. If they love animals,
then they will surely appreciate this adorable date with furballs.
·
Cook
together and have a simple dinner date at home with soft music and dancing
If they are shy, introvert and don’t really like going out much, you
could plan a simple homely date. To make it interesting, cook together. This
will give you more time and something to do. Also, it’s safer since it won’t
give an impression that you just wanted to jump in bed with them.
·
Go
boating
Boating is another nice and cozy option. You and your date out on the
silent waters with the cool breeze flowing, makes the perfect recipe for a
first date.
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Do
activities together
You could also go for an activity together, depending on their interests.
Activities like pottery, ceramic painting, dancing, karaoke, etc. have single
sessions that you can book and enjoy with them as you get to know each other
better while bringing out your creative side.
Final thoughts
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