10 SECRETS OF POWERS

10 SECRETS OF POWERS
 

 

The First Secret : The Power of Thought
 
Love begins with our thoughts.  We become what we think about.
 
Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.
 
Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and
 
ourselves.  If we want to love someone, we need to consider his or
 
her needs and desires.  Thinking about your ideal partner will help
 
you recognise him or her when you meet him or her.
 

 

 
The Second Secret : The Power of Respect
 
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them.
 
The first person you need to respect is yourself.  To begin to gain
 
self-respect, ask yourself, “What do I respect about myself?”  To
 
gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself,
 
“What do I respect about them?”
 

 

 
The Third Secret : The Power of Giving
 
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it!  The more
 
love you give, the more you will receive.  To love is to give of
 
yourself, freely and unconditionally.  Practice random acts of
 
kindness.  Before committing to a relationship ask not what other
 
person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able
 
to give them.  The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving
 
relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what
 
you can take.
 

 

 
The Fourth Secret : The Power of Friendship
 
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend.  Love does not
 
consist of gazing into each other’s eyes, but rather looking outward
 
together in the same direction.    To love someone completely you
 
must love him or her  for who they are and not what they look like.
 
Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds grow.  If you want
 
to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
 

 

 
The Fifth Secret : The Power of Touch
 
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down
 
Barriers and bonding relationships.  Touch changes our physical and
 
Emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
 

 

 
The Sixth Secret : The Power of Letting Go
 
If you love something, let is free.  If it comes back to you, it’s yours, if it
 
doesn’t, it never was.  Even in a loving relationship, people need their
 
own space.  If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and
 
let go of past hurts and grievances.  Love means letting go of our fears,
 
prejudices, egos and conditions.  “Today I let go of all my fears, the past
 
has no power over me – today is the beginning of a new life.”
 

 

 
The Seventh Secret : The Power of Communication
 
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes.  To love
 
someone is to communicate with them.  Let the people you love know that
 
you love them and appreciate them.  Never let an opportunity pass to
 
praise someone.  Always leave someone you love with a loving word – it
 
could be the last time you see him or her.  If you were about to die but
 
could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call,
 
what would you say and…. Why are you waiting?
 

 

 
The Eighth Secret : The Power of Commitment
 
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and
 
That commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. 
 
Commitment is the true test of love.  If you want to have loving relation-
 
ships,  you must be committed to loving relationships.  When you are
 
committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. 
 
Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.
 

 

 
The Ninth Secret : The Power of Passion
 
 Passions ignites love and keeps it alive.  Lasting passion does not come
 
Through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment,
 
Enthusiasm, interest and excitement.  Passion can be recreated by
 
recreating past experiences.  When you felt passionate spontaneity and
 
surprises produce passion.   The essence of love and happiness are the
 
same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
 

 

 
The Tenth Secret : The Power of Trust
 
Trust is essential in all loving relationships.  Without it one person becomes
 
suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and
 
emotionally suffocated.  You cannot love someone completely unless you
 
trust him or her completely.  Act as if your relationship with the other
 
person is right for you is to ask yourself, “Do I trust them completely and
 
unreservedly?”  If the answer is “no”, think carefully before making a
 
commitment.