It’s hard to know exactly how many people are sleeping with a
co-worker, but a 2013 survey found that 90% of respondents thought there was
nothing wrong with the practice. Of course, there are many sensual tips that
are associated with this kind of activity, and men who are considering talking
that cute colleague into their bed may need to do a little thinking first.
While matters of male organ care need to be considered, things get a
little more complicated when close encounters of the office kind occur.
Check first.
It’s a good idea to find out if one’s place of employment has
any rules concerning inter-office relationships. This is rarer nowadays, but
even businesses without a written rule may have a corporate climate that
discourages the practice. It’s important to consider this and weigh whether the
pursuit of a co-worker is worth the possible detriment to one’s career if
discovered.
Establish common ground rules.
This can be a bit tricky, as it can wreak havoc on one’s timing,
but it’s a good idea to make sure both co-workers are on the same page about
key issues, including how open they want to be about sleeping together. It’s
nobody else’s business, but different partners may have different feelings
about how open they wish to be – even if it’s a simple one-night stand.
No on-the-job training.
Many men have fantasies about getting it on in the stockroom or
on the conference table. There’s nothing wrong with fantasies like this, but in
reality this can be very risky. Not only can such blatant sensual activity
result in termination if discovered (and with more and more workplace
surveillance cameras, it’s quite likely it will be discovered), but it also
blows to bits any hopes of secrecy concerning the relationship.
Plan appropriately.
Many co-workers find it convenient to have a quick one during
lunch. It’s important to plan this properly and coordinate things so that the
couple is not seen leaving or returning at the same time.
Be sensitive.
Male co-workers may sometimes take a more casual approach to an
office affair than their female partners. It often can be easier for a guy to
take a “nothing’s changed” attitude while at work, and this can sometimes knock
a partner’s self-esteem for a loop. With that in mind, try to find ways to
reassure her. Don’t treat her in a more aloof manner than before the sleepover.
If alone, give her a knowing wink and a smile or, if possible, whisper in her
ear about how wonderful last night was.
Don’t make the office a focus.
When alone together, it’s easy to talk on and on about work
matters. If a fling is turning into a real relationship, it may be good to put
the brakes on this a little. Finding the right balance between talking about
work issues and talking about “us” issues can be a challenge when a
relationship with a co-worker deepens.
But use the office when necessary.
On a day when one’s partner has become stressed out due to
office issues, a man can use their shared bedtime to release office stress.
Encouraging her to let out her stress in a verbal and forceful way while she is
being stroked, pleasured orally and entered can produce an intense response.
Consider role playing.
Sometimes sensual role playing involving co-workers, vendors or
other personalities in the workplace can add a little spice to one’s
activities.
The above sensual tips can provide a little help when sleeping
with a co-worker. So can always presenting her with a healthy tool, for which
the regular use of a superior male
organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is advised. Enjoyably rough sensual
activity may cause some de-sensitization, and a crème with neuroprotective
acetyl L-carnitine can help restore sensitivity to the rod. Adequate male
member blood flow is also always necessary, so apply a crème with L-arginine;
that ingredient helps create nitric oxide, which in turn keeps manhood blood
vessels open and healthy.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
male organ health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.