A big strong monster of a member is every man's goal, but the reality is that sometimes what a guy has to work with is a soft male organ. Most sensual tips involving the soft male organ focus on ways to make it hard, and that's certainly laudable; however, sometimes hardness just isn't going to happen in the desired way, even when a man maintains excellent male organ health. For those occasions when relative softness is the order of the day (or night), the following sensual tips may prove helpful.

A soft male organ is not a disinterested male organ.

Because the image of a sensually engaged manhood is one as hard as steel, it's easy to forget that a man can be sensually interested and be soft. This is especially true when a formerly hard member has gone limp. The tool is still feeling that need to engage, but physical conditions have effected a change in the hardness factor. Partners who encounter a soft male organ shouldn't take it as a sign of rejection – but it may mean that, if the anticipated entertainment involves penetration, there may need to be a change of plans.

Use the situation to explore.

Many men and their partners think that a soft male organ that prevents penetration means no sensual activity. In fact, the presence of a soft male organ can allow a couple to engage in some new explorations. The soft partner can really take a tour of his partner's body, using his tongue and his fingers to cause excitation in a variety of sensual zones.  And the partner can certainly return the favor.

Rub it in.

Just because penetration is off the table doesn't mean there can't be organ-to-organ collaboration. Many couples find it intensely exciting to lie face-to-face and rub their organs against each other. Some also report a tingling sensual thrill from having the woman lie with her legs spread and the male knelt beside her, taking his soft male organ and gently slapping it against her female organ.

Break out the toys.

When a soft male organ presents itself, it can provide an excellent opportunity to try out some sensual toys on each other. For example, sharing a vibrating toy can be a terrifically sensual experience – as can each of the partners having a vibrating toy and pleasuring the other partner simultaneously. Edible underwear can add a playful and tasteful aspect to the evening. A male organ substitute for a female partner's organ is an obvious option, but men may want to consider exploring a little posterior penetration for themselves as well.

Self--pleasure.

Self-pleasuring is too often a solo activity, even among couples who have been together for years. Mutual self-pleasuring is often practiced with one partner pleasuring the other manually, but each partner self-pleasuring him/herself in front of the other is much rarer. Couples may want to take advantage of a soft male organ to openly self-stimulate, narrating their experience as they go and commenting on how exciting they find the activity in the moment. A person can discover a great deal about what pleasures a partner by watching him or her self-gratify. (And partners don't have to wait for a soft male organ occurrence to indulge in this stimulating experience!)

There are more sensual tips for when a soft male organ is present, including mutual oral activity, body painting, etc., but these offer an idea of what one can do. Soft or hard, the health of the rod is crucial, and so using a first-class male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) should be part of every man's daily routine. A crème with many amino acids and vitamins is best. Most men want one that includes L-arginine, an ingredient that aids in the production of nitric oxide. Why is that good? Because nitric oxide helps keep member blood vessels open. Also advisable is to find a crème with vitamin C, which plays a key role in collagen formation and manhood tissue firmness. Applying the crème regularly helps keep a soft male organ, a hard manhood and any member in between in better health.

Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common manhood health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.