Paradoxically! In order to succeed you need to follow the 3 rules of success...
1. Fail as soon as possible!
My comment: I can tell you from my live experience, that is easy to do ; )
2. Find something that really works for you.
My comment: That is very hard, but if you insist you will find it, finally!
3. Look at yourself as to an expert (after failing first).
My comment: This employs education and knowledge; so here coaches have a word to say.