Sensual Toys: Use them in These Positions for Better Lovemaking
Men sometimes look at the vibrator as competition, but there’s
no need. The male organ and the vibrator can join forces to make lovemaking
even more enjoyable for both partners. One study found that women who use
vibrators report higher marks on sensual function measures, such as release,
lubrication and desire. Incorporating sensual toys into partner lovemaking can
bring the activity to new levels. Since sensual
health involves an active and
enjoyable lovemaking life, it’s always a good idea to think of ways to freshen
up the routine.
The following are tips for using a vibrator in various
lovemaking positions. Of course, couples should get creative and experiment for
themselves, but these are good places to start.
Missionary (him on top)
A vibrator can be placed on a female partner’s sensitive outer
spot while the man is on top. This can be a bit tricky, as a large vibrator may
slip off or be too thick to accommodate how close the partners want their
bodies to be.
A couple can get around these issues by using a particular type
of vibrator. There are vibrating male organ rings that men can wear while they
make love with a partner, and the ring will provide stimulation to her external
region as well as the man’s male organ. Another option is a thin vibrator that
can nestle easily between the two partners’ bodies.
Missionary (her on top)
This position makes it a little easier to use a normal vibrator,
as the woman’s external spot is more exposed. She can sit up, rest a vibrator
on his groin bone and ride, controlling just how much and when she gets her
vibrations.
Doggie Style
In this position, it’s easy for either partner to press the
vibrator to a woman’s sensitive spot. She can experiment with propping herself
up on her hands or dropping down to her elbows; she can also vary how widely
she spreads her legs.
Reverse Cowgirl
Using a vibrator in this position can be a real treat for the
man, since the positioning of the toy will allow for vibrations to be delivered
to his sack.
Spread Eagle
This position creates maximum exposure of the woman’s pleasure
spot. Beginning in man-on-top missionary, the man sits on his calves and pulls
the woman’s hips up close to him so she’s in a bridge position with one leg on
each side of her partner. Her spot is right out there in the open for either
partner to access with the toy of their choice.
Toys are a great way to spice up a couple’s lovemaking life, and
the market has expanded greatly in recent years. People should explore this new
world of sensual toys, learning about different designs. Some toys can be worn
on the fingertips; some can be controlled by remote; some go inside a woman’s
body, while some are specifically designed for the outside. Each of these
features could appeal to partners in different ways, so doing one’s homework
and investing wisely is a good idea.
Some couples will find that the introduction of good vibrations
into their lovemaking life increases their desire and, in turn, the frequency
with which they get it on. And while that’s certainly not a bad thing, partners
should be mindful to care for themselves, working to prevent chafing and
soreness that can result from frequent sensual activity. Using plenty of
lubricant can help prevent manhood and female organ chafing. Men should also
consider using a male organ
health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) daily to protect their delicate
manhood skin. With Shea butter and vitamin E, this crème keeps the skin
hydrated and resilient against friction. Taking care of the female and male
organ will ensure that a couple is ready to go for their next romp.