Sensual Tips for Pursuing a Threesome
Experimenting with sensual activities adds spice to a couple's
love life, which is why some people find themselves interested in a threesome:
sensual activity between three people. Certainly, maintaining a healthy male
organ is a consideration before embarking on such an affair, as well as
ensuring other male organ care factors. But what other sensual tips
should a couple be aware of before diving into a threesome?
Be on the same page.
Probably the most important factor is being sure that both
participants are on the same page, meaning they are in agreement about what is
involved.
As an example, and one that is the most basic: What is the
composition of this threesome? A man might take it for granted, for example,
that a threesome means that he would be bedding two beautiful women. A woman
might at the same time just assume that another man would be added into their
existing mix. It's best to be clear about this from the outset before going too
far down the road.
Know how flexible to be.
Suppose the man has one idea of the composition and the woman
has another, as above. The couple then needs to think about their flexibility.
Can one side bend and agree to the other's desire about the gender of the third
party? Can they compromise and have one threesome with a male added and another
with a female added?
Talk about why a threesome is desirable.
Discussing a threesome opens up some other conversations which
can be valuable. Is the couple interested because their love life has become a
little stale or predictable? Being honest about this can be productive, as it
may lead to the couple exploring other options as well (such as role playing,
sensual toys, etc.).
Think about what will actually occur.
Will all three participants do everything to each other? Or will
there be roles? For example, if it's two females and one male, will the male
penetrate both females? If two males and a female, will the men only engage
with the female or with each other as well? Discussing what is in a couple's
comfort zone can help avoid some awkward moments later.
Men issues
Men will need to take some extra time to make sure they are in
the right frame of mind for a threesome. If a second man is going to be added
into the mix, how is the first male going to feel about the
"competition?" Is he going to be comparing his own equipment to that
of the other man? Is he prepared if the other man has a member that is larger
or that has a more "perfect" appearance than his own?
If he will be servicing a second woman, is he secure in his
ability and appearance? Does he worry that his current mate may value his
manhood but fear that a newcomer might find it lacking? Has his male organ
health routine ensured that he presents a member that is healthy and attractive
to a new partner?
Thinking through the idea of a threesome, including whether the
man sports a healthy male organ, can make the experience much more enjoyable
for all concerned. For those men who may feel a little hesitant about the
appearance of their manhood, using a first-class male organ health crème (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil) can
help make it look its best. A man can't do anything about the size of his
manhood, but he can make sure it presents well. For example, few things turn a
woman off more quickly than a male member that emits an overwhelming,
unpleasant odor. This is most often caused by bacteria, so using a crème with a
strong bacteria fighter, such as vitamin A, is essential. A member that is
cursed with dry, flaky skin is also not going to be a welcome sight at a
threesome; make sure to use a crème with a high-end emollient like Shea butter
plus a natural hydrator like vitamin E. Keeping the equipment good and healthy
is a benefit for any man – whether he's with one partner or a dozen.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
member health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.