Sensual Toys for Beginners – Spice Things Up
More
and more today, couples are opting to add sensual toys to their private lives.
This in no way diminishes the healthy firm male organ and the job that it
performs in keeping a couple's romantic life happy; rather, it is an
acknowledgement that there is a whole world of options in a couple's romantic
play, and nowadays anything can be considered. Sensual toys will never replace
a tool that has been given diligent male
organ care through the
years – nor should they – but they can add a delectable touch of spice that
makes any couple's experiences more fun.
Not
a Requirement
Naturally,
there's nothing that says that any couple has to incorporate sensual toys into
their romantic activities. Many, many couples are perfectly happy using their
own body parts and nothing else in the bedroom.
But
what about those who do want to look into expanding their horizons by adding
toys into the mix? Where do they begin?
Assess
The
first step, of course, is to make sure that both partners are on the same page.
Are both partners interested in exploring the use of sensual toys? Is one more
interested than the other? Are there any specific concerns that should be aired
and addressed?
We’re
All Different
No
two couples are the same, of course, and so what one couple is ready to do in
terms of using sensual toys may differ from what another couple is
prepared to do; however, here are a few general guidelines for beginners
looking for some new sensual devices.
-
Start slow (or small). Purchasing a massive male organ replica
right out of the gate may not be the wisest decision. A small handheld
vibrating egg or massager may be more appropriate for two people who are just
beginning to explore. This kind of device can be used on the male organ and on
the external area of the female organ to provide stimulation. If a person is
ready for some form of insertion (in the female organ or male or female
posterior), a more petite male organ replica is probably a better bet for
starters.
-
Ring it up. Many men find that wearing a male organ ring can really enhance
their sensual experience – and just having their partner place it on their
tools can be an exciting sensation. Care simply needs to be taken in picking
the kind (leather, plastic, silicone, metal, etc.) that seems best. Some men
also may feel more comfortable shaving their genitals before using a ring, in
order to lessen the chance of pubic hairs being pulled inadvertently.
-
Ball it (or bead it). Many beginners find using Ben-wa balls
or vibrating beads quite pleasurable. These are small, round objects, usually
strung together, which are inserted carefully into the female organ to provide
direct stimulation. However, the user must be comfortable with the insertion of
objects into the female organ and may need to work up to these. Ben-wa balls or
beads are often used to provide secret sensual stimulation while in public.
There
are many other sensual toy options for beginners to consider; the most
important thing is to choose a toy with which the user feels comfortable and to
follow any instructions. (If lubrication is required, users should apply both
the appropriate amount and pay attention to the kind of lubricant – such as
water-based versus oil-based – that is recommended.)
Occasionally
sensual toys can result in a bit of rawness or soreness on a man's firm male
organ; using a nourishing male organ health
cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man
Oil) can
help address this issue. Men should look for a cream that contains a high-end
emollient (Shea butter is excellent) and a natural hydrator (such as vitamin E)
to attend to any soreness resulting from toy use (or other causes). It's also
best to select a cream that includes alpha lipoic acid, a superior antioxidant
that may offset harmful oxidative and aging processes in manhood cell
metabolism.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ
health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity, and what to do to
maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes
in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous
websites.