Female Turn-offs -- 7 Ways to Scare Her Off For Good
Every girl has her own set of criteria for what her Prince Charming looks like. Interestingly,
however, most woman agree on the criteria that makes a guy a frog – that they
don’t want to kiss or date,
for that matter. See what personality traits and first-date no-no’s are
sure to start a guy off on the path to becoming a frog instead of a
prince. Also learn why a healthy
male organ ensures at
least one trait in the turn-on category.
1) Always seeking validation: The dude who is constantly asking her if she likes something, if
this is okay, if he can do anything or who is just generally being too needy
and clingy is a major turn-off. If he is always seeking approval and
validation, she is likely to interpret that as a lack of confidence and an
inability to take care of his own needs – let alone her needs – in the
relationship.
2) Stuck on the ex: This may be a no-brainer
for some guys, but surprisingly, lots of dudes openly talk about their
ex-girlfriends on first and second dates. Ex-bashing lets a girl know
that he is not over
his ex, not ready
to date, and not classy.
After all, if he is bad-talking her, what are the chances he won’t be bad
talking this very date later to his buddies or future dates. No thanks!
3) Dirty apartment, house, or car: If the date starts out or ends in his pad, or uses his car for
transportation, it had better be clean. A guy who doesn’t take care of
his living space or car is telling her that he doesn’t go out of his way to
make her comfortable. Having to shove a pile of magazines out of the way
to sit on the couch or throw empty soda bottles in the back seat to fit in the
car will also let her know she will
have to clean his place if she doesn’t want to hang out in filth.
4) Moving too fast: Guys who assume they will get to a certain base on a 1st or 2nd date probably won’t be
rounding any. A girl needs to be in control of the speed of physical
intimacy; too fast, and she will feel like she is easy. Plus, if he is
trying to get in her pants on the first date, she will be wondering how many
other girls he hooked up with in that way too!
5) Bad conversation: A guy who can’t hold his
own during the dinner convo can make things feel awkward and
uncomfortable. Sure, it’s okay to be a little shy at first, but if a guy
can come up with nothing to
say or doesn’t really respond to all the sparkling conversation she is throwing
his way, there’s a fair chance the date will end before dessert.
6) Man Stink: It is not necessary to show
up for a date in a $500 designer outfit, but a dude should shower, comb his
hair, wear nice clothes and otherwise look presentable. A noticeable man
stink from the get-go is a good way to end things early.
7) Being Cheap: No, a guy doesn’t have to
drop $200-$300 bucks on dinner, but even in this modern day of dating, it is
still considered customary for him to pay for dinner. If money is a big
issue, he should go Dutch and split the cost of the meal at the very least, but
let her know at the beginning of the date so she isn’t scrambling for cash when
the bill comes.
Making Sure the Male organ Isn’t a Turnoff
If a guy survives a few dates and still hasn’t been sent
packing, he will want to ensure that what he has going on below the belt isn’t
going to send her running. Maintaining male organ hygiene is an important
part of being attractive to one’s lady friend. Some amount of grooming –
whether just a trim or a wax job – communicates to her that he is concerned
about his entire appearance.
Additionally, using a male organ health
cream (health professionals recommend
Man 1 Man Oil) that contains Shea butter,
vitamin E, and vitamin A can help banish common male organ problems such as
male organ acne, dry skin, and male organ odor. Apply every day after the
shower to ensure that the health of the male organ isn’t going to be a deal
breaker.