Meet My Male Organ Sheath - Introducing Intimate Aids to a New Partner
Sometimes a man likes to
incorporate an intimate aid, such as a male organ sheath, into his romantic
life; yet, while more and more people are admitting that their romantic lives
are enlivened by the occasional or
regular use of adult toys, it can still be a tricky subject to bring up with a
partner. While the use of an adult toy is not directly related to male organ health, it can
have an impact on the health of a person's sensual relationships – either
positively, if a man finds a partner who is accepting of the device; or
negatively, if refusal to consider toys causes a rift in the relationship.
So how does a man go
about incorporating intimate aids into partner play?
Here are a few steps to
consider:
- Decide how
important the adult toys are. For example, if a man
enjoys wearing a male organ ring, is it something that he feels strongly about
sharing with his partner? For some men, a male organ ring may play a role in
their performance, so it may be important to incorporate it into partner
activity. For another man, it may be purely decorative, and he may or may not
feel strongly about wearing it around another person. There's no right or wrong
answer as to whether a device is important: that's a personal decision. What is
essential is for each individual to determine how important sharing the use of
those toys is.
- Consider how the
partner may react. This can be difficult,
especially early in a relationship, but it is important. There can be any
number of reactions. It's entirely possible that the partner will be excited
and pleased; perhaps she also shares a fondness for adult toys which she has
been reluctant to mention. She could also be curious and interested in learning
more. On the other hand, she might react negatively. The partner may have
strong feelings about the appropriateness of using devices, and that can be
difficult; however, it is also possible that the partner's feelings may relate
to insecurities about herself or about the relationship. She may think
"Why does he need to use an adult toy when he's with me? Am I not
satisfying enough?"
- Weigh those
reactions. Depending on the reaction
a man expects to get if he reveals his fondness for toys,
he may then decide whether he
wants to move forward or not. This doesn't mean he cannot move forward if he
believes the reaction may be negative; he just needs to be prepared for that
eventuality. If a negative reaction does seem most likely, he should consider
how that affects his approach. He might want to "slide" into the
subject, perhaps by talking about how much he values the relationship, what a
wonderful and giving lover his partner is, and how he feels he can trust her
and talk about things he is reluctant to share – and that one of those things
is his enjoyment of a male organ sheath, or whatever other intimate aid may be
of interest to him.
- Don't force the
issue. The man should be sensitive to his partner's
reaction. Ideally, the couple should fully talk out any issues that arise;
however, it is possible that the partner may feel uncomfortable. If that is the
case, the man should thank her for listening to what he has to say and let her
know that he would be interested in talking about it further but is happy to
let her absorb all this information and talk about it at a later time.
Talking about a male
organ sheath or other pleasure implements can be a risk, but it can also lead
to an increasingly active sensual life. A man should be prepared for this by
keeping his male organ in tip-top health; using a top notch male
organ health cream (health
professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) is
one way of maintaining overall male organ condition. The active user should
seek a cream that includes acetyl L carnitine, which is neuroprotective and is
a boon to maintaining valuable male organ sensitivity. Also essential in any
first rate cream is the presence of vitamin C, which plays a big role in
collagen production and male tissue firmness.
Visit http://www.man1health.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues,
tips on improving male organ sensitivity, and what to do to maintain a healthy
male organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health
issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.