Self-stimulation Obsession – Signs a Guy is Overdoing the Self-love
Cultural
and religious inhibitions aside, it is medically recognized that
self-stimulation is a normal and healthy part of life – for men and women
alike. Men, in particular, are faced with extraordinary urges from the time
they reach puberty, and it is not uncommon for a younger teen to engage in
self-pleasure several times a day. Self-stimulation is pleasurable and
relaxing, and men who are familiar with their own bodies often make for better
partners; and the old tales that it causes problems like blindness, hairy
palms, weakness and infertility are simply not true. On the other hand, there
can always be too much of a good thing, and when self-stroking becomes an
obsession, rather than a pleasant pastime, then there may be cause for concern.
Some signs that men may be taking things too far are described here, along with
some tips for treatment and general male organ care.
When
is it too much?
1. It interferes with normal daily
activities. Granted, most men think about sensual behavior more or less
non-stop, and they may become excited multiple times a day. In most cases,
though, they can restrain the urge until an appropriate time and take care of business
then. On the other hand, men who find that they cannot get through ordinary
tasks – filing a report, cooking a meal, driving to work, and so on – without
interrupting the proceedings for a quick solo session may be looking at
obsessive behavior.
2. He
cannot achieve release by any other means. It goes without saying that if a man has
just drained the tanks by self-stroking, he may have difficulty achieving
release with a partner right away – at least for several hours. But when a man
does not experience enough stimulation to get off during partner relations,
this can become a problem.
3. He
is not interested in other forms of sensual activity. Men generally develop their own rituals
and habits when it comes to self-stimulation, whether they engage in a quick
session in the bathroom or a more elaborate scenario using toys, videos, and so
on. On the other hand, partner activity is still usually the preferred choice,
and most men would rather enjoy intimacy with a live partner. When a real
partner does not appeal, and only solo stimulation will do, then it may be
worth considering therapy or other treatment.
4. He
can’t stop thinking about it. As
with men who cannot control the urge to self-pleasure, even at inappropriate
times, guys who can’t stop thinking about it – and who cannot focus on regular
activities – may be developing obsessive behavior.
5. He
can’t stop even though it is damaging the male tissue. Finally, guys who just can’t take a
break from getting themselves off, even when the male organ is chronically
sore, irritated and even bruised – may need some help disengaging from harmful
behavior. Continued harsh treatment without allowing time for damaged skin and
connective tissue to heal may eventually lead to diminished male organ
sensation, or even loss of erectile function.
Getting
help
Men
who find that the urge to self-pleasure is disrupting their lives and spiraling
out of control can seek help from a qualified therapist. Often, counseling and
other therapeutic interventions can help to reverse destructive behavior and
allow men to enjoy a normal, healthy romantic life.
Taking
care
For
any man, self-stroking can take its toll on the male tissue. Rubbing, chafing
and pulling can cause minute tears in the skin, leaving the tissue vulnerable
to microorganisms that may cause infection. Overuse can also cause scarring,
roughness and keratinized tissue, all of which can interfere with normal
sensation and function. Using a lube that is specifically designed for this
activity is essential in helping to prevent damage; and when the deed is done,
following up with a wash, and then an application of a top-shelf male
organ health formula (health
professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil), can help stressed tissues to heal.
For additional information
on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving male organ
sensitivity, and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ, visit: http://www.man1health.com.
John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and
is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.