How He Feels When You Don't Have an Orgasm

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Interestingly, men viewed it as the guy's responsibility to bring a female partner to orgasm (the women in the focus groups tended to agree with this viewpoint). Here are some quotes from men who participated in the study: "If the female . . . just doesn't have an orgasm, I'm always kind of down about it, regardless of the fact that I've had one." "If you're trying to and she doesn't [orgasm], then that's, like, upsetting. But if you do and she does, it's a pretty big accomplishment." "I think it's only natural to look at yourself and probably blame yourself to an extent. Even though there's countless factors that could have contributed [to the lack of female orgasm during intercourse], it could be completely not your fault, but the guy has most of the responsibility to make the female orgasm." And while the women's focus groups said that they rarely communicated about their lack of orgasm, men generally said they wanted women to bring it up—along with what gets them off (so they could help her climax in the future). Nervous about vocalizing what makes you hot? These tips on how to talk dirty will help. - See more at: http://hallanaija.blogspot.com/2014/01/how-he-feels-when-you-dont-have-orgasm.html#sthash.mN6nKBtr.dpuf