For
many people, self-pleasuring and intimacy go hand-in-hand. They readily (and happily) engage in
both acts as part of the full spectrum of the physical experience. For others, intimacy and self-pleasuring
are mutually exclusive; if one is having intimate relations with a partner, why
the need to Self-pleasure? While
many people are lucky enough to be able to get the job done no matter what
route they take, there are a good number of men, and especially women, who can
only experience release through one of these techniques. People who struggle with this
typically find that release can be reached during self-pleasuring, but not
intimacy. Individuals who
fall into this category may find themselves frustrated with their intimate
lives, and they may even withdraw from intimacy, which can lead to relationship
problems. In the following sections, some solutions to this problem are
offered, as well as tips on how a healthy male organ can keep one’s intimate life on the
up-and-up.
Why
does my partner come during self-pleasuring, but not intimacy?
That’s
simple: they know exactly what they like! Most people’s first intimate
experiences are of the solo variety, not the partnered kind; this means they
learn exactly how to pleasure themselves from the get-go. They often become
experts in using the pace, pressure, and technique needed to reach come. When switching to a partner
relationship, things are not always so easy. Though our partners may mean well,
let’s be honest; they don’t always have the best technique. Positions can be awkward and
uncomfortable, and if each partner appreciates a different pace or pressure,
they may not align perfectly, which means one person may consistently fall flat
when it comes to the big O.
What
are some ways to change our technique so both partners come?
Does
the health of the male organ impact one’s intimate life?
Absolutely. The male organ is a man’s love tool;
if it isn’t healthy, how can the intimate life be healthy? To keep the male organ healthy, a man
should focus on improving and maintaining his overall health. Circulation is key to a healthy
response, so a man should stop smoking, minimize alcohol intake, exercise
regularly, keep his weight in check and eat a balanced diet to keep the blood
pumping down south. Using
a daily male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man
1 Man Oil) is also important
to the health of the male organ. A male organ cream containing L-Arginine can
help maintain and improve a man’s circulation to his love stick – keeping it in
full blood supply for a healthier response.
For additional information
on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving male organ
sensitivity, and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ, visit: http://www.man1health.com.
John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and
is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.