Six Embarrassing Intimate questions – Real Answers to Real-Life Problems

Intimacy is fun. And sometimes, intimacy is funny.  It can also be embarrassing, awkward and just plain weird.  However, even with the broad spectrum of experiences one can have during intimacy, most people still believe it should be effortless and perfect as it appears in the latest romantic comedy.  In keeping with that illusion, most people don’t feel comfortable talking to others about their quirky male organ or their random intimate fantasies, and they certainly don’t want to ask embarrassing questions.  Here are the answers to some of those questions that never seem to get asked, including tips for keeping the male organ healthy.

My girl doesn’t like to get completely undressed during intimacy; what’s up with that?

When one, or both partners feels uncomfortable with no clothes on, it can make intimacy a bit trickier.  People who don’t like to be undressed may come from a very conservative background – they may even struggle with feelings of shame when it comes to intimate activity.  Alternatively, self-esteem and body issues may be the reason she wants to stay covered up.  The quirk is no big deal, unless it detracting from the overall enjoyment of the intimate experience.  If so, a therapist would be helpful in getting to the root of the problem.

My wife doesn’t want to use toys –- why not?

To each his own, right?  If the idea of using a toy makes a woman uncomfortable, it is not going to serve a couple’s intimate life well to force the issue.  Perhaps the idea of it feels weird to her, or maybe the sensation of using the toy itself is not pleasurable for her.  Try not to push the issue, and take it as a compliment that she is satisfied enough by her partner – no bells and whistles needed!

My husband wants me to be on top, but I’m heavier than him.  Can he be crushed?

Many people who are sensitive about their weight fear hurting their partners – particularly if there is a big weight discrepancy between the two.  However, if a man is requesting that his partner be on top, it is likely he is enjoying the activity, so there is nothing to worry about.  After all, if it was uncomfortable for him or his manhood, he would change it in an instant, right?

My mouth gets tired when going down on my guy; is that abnormal?

What’s abnormal about it?  The muscles used during oral intimacy are not the same muscles that the mouth uses during everyday life, so it stands to reason that one’s mouth, jaw or tonged might get tired.  Don’t let this be a deterrent from performing the deed altogether; simply switch to using a hand or two when the mouth needs a rest.

Is there anything wrong with faking it?

Well, no, it is perfectly fine to fake it – so long as one doesn’t want to enjoy intimacy to the fullest!  Many people fake it to save their partners feelings, but in reality, it is only hurting the faker in the long run.  If one’s partner thinks they are a stud in bed, they will never learn what really makes their partner tick.  A better solution would be to explore ways for both partners to reach the height of pleasure; that way intimacy is enjoyable for both people involved – no faking necessary!

My guy has a funky male organ odor. What will fix this without hurting his feelings?

Encountering a guy with funky junk can be unpleasant, and it can be downright awkward to confront him about.  Rather than holding one’s nose during oral intimacy, buy him some male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil).  A male organ health cream, particularly one that is formulated with vitamin A – which busts odor-causing bacteria – can keep his junk in top-top shape and odor free.  All he needs to do is add it to his daily hygiene routine by slathering it on after every shower, done and done!

For additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity, and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ, visit: http://www.man1health.com. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.