Low Male Drive in Men – What it Means and Doesn’t Mean
According to popular belief, the average man is ready at a
moment’s notice to spring into action – even the slightest of breezes may be
enough to set off a sensual response. However, while few men will openly admit
it, guys are almost as likely as women to experience periods of low male drive,
where they just can’t seem to muster enough interest to get things started –
never mind take them to a glorious finish.
Although men tend to judge themselves by their male drive and
ability to be ready at any time, low male drive does not have much to do with a
man’s virility; in general, it is related to something else that is going on in
his life. Often, addressing the underlying problem and practicing adequate male organ care can be effective in overcoming this
distressing issue.
What low male drive might mean
A man who is not feeling the urge quite as often as his partner
wants might be experiencing any of the following:
· Too much stress – Men who are stressed out over their
jobs, finances, family issues, or relationship problems are generally flooding
their own bodies with stress hormones, which have a tendency to counteract the
“feel-good” neurotransmitters that produce feelings of desire. Learning to cope
with stress in a healthy way can help to alleviate the effects of daily life on
the desire to get intimate.
· An underlying health problem – Men who are affected by health issues
such as cardiovascular disease, diabetes, nerve damage, low male hormone levels, depression, or a host of other
problems might not be firing on all cylinders. Identifying and treating these
conditions can often help to reverse the problem, putting men back into action.
· Emotional issues – Men who have been raised in a
religiously conservative household or who have been shamed about reproductive
issues may experience feelings of guilt when it comes to physical relations;
this can ultimately affect levels of desire and lead to problems with masculine
function and intimacy. In some cases, a close relationship with a partner can
help, but in most instances, counseling may be needed to build a healthy urge
for intimacy.
· Medications and other substances – Certain medications, as well as
nicotine, alcohol and recreational substances, can diminish a man’s drive, as
well as causing problems in terms of male function. Quitting smoking, limiting
alcohol intake, avoiding illicit substances and changing medications are all
indicated in this event.
What reduced desire usually doesn’t mean
Men who are experiencing low male drive can – in most cases –
reassure their partners that it is not lack of attraction or infidelity that is
causing the drop in interest. Many women tend to feel that their partner’s lack
of interest means that he is not attracted to her anymore; this can lead to
relationship problems if not addressed in a positive manner.
Men can let their partners know that the problem is not because of
lack of affection or attraction, and couples can often work together to find
the real source of the problem.
Male organ TLC for increased confidence
Like their female counterparts, men are more likely to feel
attractive and ready for action if they feel good about how they look. In order
to feel his best, a man’s overall health and physical fitness is important, of
course. This doesn’t mean he has to be a GQ model – taking care of himself by
eating right and getting a moderate degree of regular exercise can create feelings
of well-being that are conducive to a healthy male drive.
A little attention to male organ grooming can also add to a man’s
level of self-confidence and enhance his level of interest in some bedroom
action. Keeping the pelvic area clean and neatly trimmed can go a long way in
this respect. Adding a specialized male organ health creme (most health professionals
recommend Man 1 Man Oil) formulated
with male-specific nutrients promote an attractive look and feel, as well as
boosting pleasurable sensation.
For additional information on most
common male organ health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity, and
what to do to maintain a healthy male organ, visit: http://www.man1health.com/. John Dugan is
a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing
contributing writer to numerous online web sites.