Male Satisfaction: Decoding a Partner’s Perceptions

Are there ways to tell if one’s partner is satisfied?

In a word, yes. The easiest way to tell if one’s partner is satisfied is to ask.  Unfortunately, bashfulness and fear of hearing the wrong answer prohibits most men from taking the leap and just asking their partner. However, if the conversation took place, most men would probably be surprised to know that she is probably concerned about the same thing. While men are worrying about their length, girth and overall skills in the sack; women are worried about their thighs, female attributes and whether they remembered to shave their legs.  Bottom line is: both genders have insecurities when it comes to getting it on. While a man can’t change the equipment he was born with, proper maintenance and male organ care can keep things under the hood running smoothly, so a man is always putting his best foot forward.

Common Male Insecurities

Men tend to be most concerned with their equipment.  Is it long enough? Wide enough? Does it look like everyone else’s? Will she notice that little hook on the end? Should the area be kept shaved, trimmed or au natural? However, the fact of the matter is, most women are perfectly happy with the size, shape and – believe it or not – smell of the male organ.  Chalk that one up to male pheromones – unless a guy skips a post-work out shower, most women are attracted to the natural scent of their man.  

It’s not the size of the ship, it’s the motion of the ocean has become a sort of catch phrase about male organ size, and it is true. A woman would much rather be with a man who is less endowed but who knows how to work it, than be with a man with a huge Johnson who just shows up. Having a few key moves in the bedroom, and executing them flawlessly, is sure to blow her mind and impress her regardless of one’s stature.

Common Female Insecurities

Women, on the other hand, tend to be concerned about the way their bodies appear. Are they attractive enough? Do the girls look perky enough? Does this lighting give them weird shadows across their face? Believe it or not, some women choose – or avoid –positions based on how they feel their body will look in such a position.  For instance, women who are insecure about their “muffin top” may avoid positions where they are on top. While intriguing lingerie or the like may be “eye candy” for men, they certainly are paying more attention to what they are feeling than to what their partner’s hair looks like!

Relax, it’s Just Intimacy

So the bottom line -- it would seem -- is that everybody has some sort of hang up.  These tend to be more common at the start of a new relationship, when everybody is feeling vulnerable and wanting to connect with the new partner; but they can just as easily be present in a 30-year long marriage.  The best solution is just to talk about it with one another.  Worrying about one’s performance – or the satisfaction of the other person – is actually more likely to cause performance issues as one gets lost in one’s head.  Performance anxiety can actually lead to male dysfunction, and that is something nobody wants to worry about. So rather than worry that she isn’t enjoying herself, just ask. Or at the very least, rest assured that she is worried about the very same thing!

One thing a man can do to increase his self-confidence in terms of the appearance of his package is to make sure it is healthy and vibrant.  Using a high-quality male organ vitamin cream (most professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) can improve the feel and appearance of the skin of the male organ, which can make a man feel more confident about his equipment and translates to better feelings in the bedroom.

For additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity, and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ, visit: http://www.man1health.com. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men’s health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.