Where do you want to go today?
INSPIRATION FOR TODAY:
Whom do you admire? What are their special traits that you would make your own?
It's time to stop being vague. If you wish to be an extraordinary person, if you wish to be wise,
then you should explicitly identify the kind of person you aspire to become."
WHERE DO YOU WANT TO GO TODAY?
Microsoft uses that slogan to convince you that with their software you
can head in any direction you please. Earl Nightingale, one of the
great motivational speakers, said it better. "Imagine that you are the
captain of a great ocean-going vessel," he suggests. "Before even
leaving the harbor, you lay out plans for your voyage. Using maps, you
choose a destination, then employ your navigational skills to arrive
safely".
"Without a chosen destination and a map to help you arrive," he
continues, "you are akin to a ship without a rudder. If you get out of
the harbor at all, you'll probably end up a derelict on some deserted
beach."
On this verge of the year 2011, I hope you've decided on a destination
for the year and have looked carefully at the map that will take you
there. A word of caution is in order. Be careful not to choose too
many destinations, meaning don't set too many goals for the year.
Including more than a handful of worthy objectives can leave you with
maps and navigational instruments strewn all over your desk - resulting
in chaos, lack of focus, and questionable navigation.
It's better to have four clearly defined targets for the year,
accompanied by a masterful plan for their achievement, than to have only
a list of 25 hoped-for achievements. Anthony Robbins suggests the
following agenda for achieving your most worthy objectives.
First, write down a "dream inventory" - a list of everything you want to
accomplish in 2011. Next choose the four most important major goals.
For each of the four make a list of the benefits you will enjoy when you
achieve them. Then list all the resources you currently possess which
would be of benefit to achieving your major goals, i.e. experience,
knowledge, skills, positive attitude, friendliness, perseverance, etc.
Continue by listing the three most successful times in your life. Under
each, write down a description of how you felt and acted during those
times, i.e. felt invincible, presented a professional image, smiled a
lot, wasn't afraid to try a new approach, etc. Next write down the type
person you would have to be to achieve your goals, i.e. must be
prepared for presentations, must always have confidence, must put
others' needs first, must organize my time, etc. Follow this with a
list of "What prevents me from achieving this right now." Write down
your fears, your lack of action, etc.
Finally, write down the steps you must take to achieve each of the four
major goals. This would be a list of each and every task that must be
completed in order to produce the maximum results. By breaking down the
objective into individual steps, it becomes more manageable.
Notice that achieving a major goal requires major planning. Have you already done your homework and feel completely prepared? Hopefully so. If not, take the first week of the coming new year to build a plan for your future. It's well worth the effort!