Some will think it's crazy or out of line, however people are more open minded and adventurous now and shy girls are not so popular any more although it's a good trait. So there is nothing wrong about going for what you want, heck somebody just might get there before you do.
Why does the man always have to purpose to the girl? Why can the girl purpose to the guy if she loves him and he hasn't purpose to her yet because she waiting on him to make the move? It's 2018, does everything have to be so traditional?
That's a good question. As a man myself, I cannot speak for all of us of course, but from what I know of my surroundings, at least in my city most of the guys would feel awkward, to say the least, but that is a mere reflection of our patriarchal society. I am afraid that until next century, males would feel awkward about this, some even offended maybe (because of pride of course), considering that our society is in the middle of slowly shifting towards a true equality between men and women.
Perhaps I'm a bit old-fashioned in this matter but I think doing it this way reverses the mankind-old role setup where the man is the hunter, main breadwinner and defender of the weak and the family, also the chivalry concept. The woman proposing (whatever that means) to the man makes the latter feel awkward and out of his traditional role. Not a good recepe for a lasting and rewarding relationship I'm afraid.
There is very less chances of girl proposing a guy. Buy if a girl truly loves a guy...she will definately propose the guy and guy will feel in the same way as girls do
I wouldn't assume to speak for all guys.....but I think it's perfectly fine.It's 2018, or at least it was the last time I looked. And even if it weren't, I have been proposed to and readily answered yes. ;)
Comments (39)
Alma Miller
3
Author
I think is very nice, her act proves courage, ambition, determination!
Somya Arora
10
Digital Marketing Specialist
surprising..............................................................
Ainsworth F.
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Affiliate Marker / Graphic Desiner
Some will think it's crazy or out of line, however people are more open minded and adventurous now and shy girls are not so popular any more although it's a good trait. So there is nothing wrong about going for what you want, heck somebody just might get there before you do.
Dawn P.
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Opportunist looking for Opportunities
Why does the man always have to purpose to the girl? Why can the girl purpose to the guy if she loves him and he hasn't purpose to her yet because she waiting on him to make the move? It's 2018, does everything have to be so traditional?
National Security
3
National Security & Protective Services, lnc
when i propose a girl , i feel that i got heaven
Victoria Banks
10
Entrepreneur / Marketer /Fashion
Hi Liu Yang, thank you very much for your recommendation and kind such words. I appreciate you! Enjoy you day everyone!
Ravi Dutt Sharma
8
Digital Marketing
In my way, it's very complicated for guys and girls.
James Jones
3
Online Marketer
It will be an awesome feeling for a boy ;)
Steven A. Donaldson
20
Native speaking English teacher
It would be cool but no true lady would do such a thing!
Jacky Lee
2
website marketing
it's very cool, it needs a lot of confidence and braveness.
Liu Yang
3
Blogger
I'm still not sure. For me it is awkward.
Jerry Robertson
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Article writer
That's a good question. As a man myself, I cannot speak for all of us of course, but from what I know of my surroundings, at least in my city most of the guys would feel awkward, to say the least, but that is a mere reflection of our patriarchal society. I am afraid that until next century, males would feel awkward about this, some even offended maybe (because of pride of course), considering that our society is in the middle of slowly shifting towards a true equality between men and women.
Amy H.
6
Editor
If it's the time, i would propose to my boyfriends. But i still think it is better for man to do it.
Evan Nasseri
7
Seo Expert
There is very low chances of girl proposing a guy.
Tadeusz Trzaskowski
6
Online Marketer
Perhaps I'm a bit old-fashioned in this matter but I think doing it this way reverses the mankind-old role setup where the man is the hunter, main breadwinner and defender of the weak and the family, also the chivalry concept. The woman proposing (whatever that means) to the man makes the latter feel awkward and out of his traditional role. Not a good recepe for a lasting and rewarding relationship I'm afraid.
Nick Wilson
1
Auto Body Repair Center
If a girl proposes it means she knows what she wants. She can easily take a stand. A smart guy will appreciate it.
Rcitymall Mumbai
1
RCity Mall
There is very less chances of girl proposing a guy. Buy if a girl truly loves a guy...she will definately propose the guy and guy will feel in the same way as girls do
faii acy
16
GPT Site Owner/Operator
I wouldn't assume to speak for all guys.....but I think it's perfectly fine.It's 2018, or at least it was the last time I looked. And even if it weren't, I have been proposed to and readily answered yes. ;)