Four Self-pleasuring Mistakes to Avoid
Everybody makes mistakes; it’s simply part of being human. Almost
everybody self-stimulates; it’s also part of being human. It’s therefore quite
likely that on occasion a man may make some mistakes when engaged in
self-pleasuring. In the interest of good male organ health, the following
details a few self-pleasuring mistakes which a man might fall prey to. Men
should consider themselves warned.
Mistakes
- Going creme-light (or creme-free). When a guy first starts self-gratifying, it’s not
unusual for him to do so without any lubrication (other than perhaps his own
saliva). After all, initial bouts of self-pleasuring often come about as a
matter of accident; a young lad is touching his member and is surprised at how
delightful it feels, and so he starts rubbing – and rubbing and rubbing and
rubbing. But once a guy has self-stimulated a few times and is used to it, he
needs to start incorporating sufficient lubricant into his routine – especially
when he starts extending his sessions from a few quick minutes to much more
extended sessions. Yet many grown men still pound away without getting cremed
up first. Without lubrication, the manhood is going to get raw and sore, and
that’s no fun.
- Gripping too tight. Yes, of course it feels so good when a guy really squeezes
his tumescent member –and doing so occasionally or for short periods is fine.
But using the notorious “death grip” on the member frequently and/or for
extended periods of time is going to cause serious de-sensitization – and
that’s no fun. It also may mean that penetrative sensual activity may not feel
as good, if the chosen partner does not have as tight a grip as one’s member
has become used to.
- Getting into a rut. Self-pleasuring is one of the most pleasurable experiences
many men have – and so it’s no wonder that lots of men self-fondle very
frequently. There’s not necessarily anything wrong with this – except that
sometimes a guy can get into a rut. He may reach a point where self-pleasuring
isn’t as pleasurable as it used to be, and that may simply be due to the fact
that he always self-gratifies in the same way. Rectifying this mistake can be
easy. If a dude always uses his right hand, switch to the left or use both hand
– or thrust the manhood against something else, like bedsheets, instead.
Those who always self-stimulate lying down in bed might want to stand up, sit
in a chair, or kneel instead. And guys who have never used sensual toys might
decide to purchase a male organ ring or a vibrator and see what kind of
difference they make.
- Self-gratifying behind the wheel. Sometimes a guy’s urge to self-fondle can be almost
uncontrollable. And sometimes when driving long distances by oneself, the
boredom can be excruciating. Nevertheless, despite the preponderance of photos
and videos online showing otherwise, guys should resist the urge to
self-stimulate while they are driving. It’s simple too dangerous an activity to
engage in while handling a couple of tons of steel. Instead, guys should wait
until they can find a men’s room to relieve themselves – or, barring that, they
should at least pull over into a secluded area and safely stop the car before
getting handy with themselves.
Often, self-pleasuring mistakes like being over-enthusiastic lead
to a raw manhood situation, which definitely needs the administration of a
first rate male organ health creme (health professionals recommend Man
1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Male
organ skin that has been rubbed raw needs to be re-moisturized, so select a
crème that contains a combination of high class hydrators, such as shea butter
and vitamin E. And too much rough handling, as mentioned, can de-sensitize the member,
so find a crème that also contains l-carnitine. This amino acid is
neuroprotective, and can help guard against unwanted loss of manhood sensation.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information
on most common manhood health issues, tips on improving male member sensitivity
and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ. John Dugan is a professional
writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing
writer to numerous websites.
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