Foot Fixation - Introducing the Topic to a Partner
A guy can find himself with a firm male organ for any number of
reasons (such as just being a guy), but some men have special triggers. For
those with a foot fixation, it can be the sight of a bare sole on the beach or
a comely ankle peeking out of a sandal strap. While a foot fixation can be
entirely harmless, in some instances a man needs to take steps to ensure that
this inclination does not have a negative impact on his male organ health. And in some cases,
a man may need to take steps to incorporate his foot-fixated fantasies into his
actual sensual life.
What is
a foot fixation?
The foot fixation, also called
podophilia, is any kind of pronounced sensual interest in or obsession
involving the foot. It is thought to be the most common sensual fixation
related to a body part.
A foot fixation can take any number of
forms. For example, a person may be fixated on one particular part of the foot
(such as the toes or the ankle) or on the foot as a whole. Some may be focused
only on a foot that is devoid of clothing, while others may find a
stocking-clad foot or a foot encased in black leather pumps to be especially
exciting.
How a man responds to his particular
interest can also take many different forms. Some men enjoy self-pleasuring
while viewing a foot from afar or while stroking or kissing a foot up close.
Others prefer that there be contact between the member and the foot, either by
the man rubbing his manhood against an accommodating appendage or by the foot
in question stroking the tool. Sometimes the fixation involves forceful
application of the foot, resulting in physical pain to the organ. (Others times
that is the farthest thing from a man's mind!)
Introducing
the fixation
For many men, keeping their podophilia
as a fantasy is all that they require; in fact, for some actually engaging in
real fixation activity would not be enjoyable. But many men are frustrated by
keeping the fixation in the realm of fantasy and would like to be able to
indulge it with their partners.
Bringing up a fixation of any kind can
be difficult for many people. These tips may make this easier.
- Be
sure. If involved in a long term relationship, a man can pretty much
figure out how his partner will react. And if the fixation is an important part
of a man, it's important to be able to share it with his partner. But he needs
to be sure that he feels comfortable and confident before bringing the matter
up.
- Be
proud. There's nothing wrong with having a foot fixation. People do not
have control over what excites them. Rather than being embarrassed, a man
should share this information as being a part of what makes him the man he is.
- Be
specific. Things will be easier for a partner if
she knows what is being asked of her. Her vision of a foot fixation may differ
from his. The man should calmly relate the things that he specifically finds
alluring and what activities he would be interested in pursuing.
Acting on a foot fixation may please a
firm male organ, but it can come with some consequences. Feet do carry bacteria
and potentially fungi. A man should make sure that the feet in question are
washed and should cleanse his manhood after foot-based contact. It also helps
to use a top-notch male organ
health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) regularly. A crème with natural
moisturizers will keep his tool looking good and feeling smooth, making it more
likely that a foot will welcome the touch of that tool. In addition, if the
crème has vitamin A, it will then have properties that help it fight any
bacteria that have lingered on the foot and been passed to the member. The
regular use of a crème will make the foot fixation experience more pleasurable
for both parties.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.