Better Sensual Activity through Adult Videos
Explicit visuals get a bad rap from many corners, but their use
among couples can sometimes lead to better sensual activity in their
relationship. This is certainly not true for all couples, especially those in
which one of the partners has strongly held negative opinions about adult films
and images. However, for most couples, adding in a touch of explicitness can be
a plus. (Guys, of course, better maintain proper male organ health, so that they’re in
good shape to handle the better sensual activity that can result!)
Be
selective.
Not every explicit video is going to be
appropriate for a couple to watch together and use to enhance their sensual
relationship. Much depends on the personal preferences of the people involved.
For example, a couple that enjoys role play may appreciate certain videos that
would be a turn-off for another couple.
So, while each member of a couple has
his or her own preferences, here are two things to consider when choosing an
explicit viewing experience.
Male
fantasies may not be female fantasies. Many guys really enjoy watching another
guy get serviced by a roomful of beautiful babes. They may get excited by shots
of male organs shooting all over a woman’s face. However, these may not be the
same kinds of situations that a woman finds enjoyable.
Story
and character may matter. While no one watches an explicit video
for the intricate plot and insight into character, many women do prefer a movie
in which there is at least a nod toward story and character. A video made up of
nothing but couples engaging in mutual pleasure may interest a woman less than
one in which a woman and a man meet and reveal a little about themselves before
falling into bed for a lengthy sensual gymnastics routine.
How to
use explicit visuals
Once a film has been selected and a
couple begins viewing it, how should they make the most of the experience?
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Engage, but don’t immerse. This should be a participatory
experience, so while watching is important, a man needs to make sure he doesn’t
get so wrapped up in the video that he ignores his partner. Make eye contact
with her during the film, kiss and caress, etc.
- Talk. Explicit visuals are not great art, so
it’s quite appropriate to talk with one’s partner during the experience.
Discussing what is being done and how excited one is by the goings-on is
crucial.
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Imitate. If a particular position or activity
speaks to a couple, they should definitely try it out as they watch – or if
it’s complicated, store it away to practice it later.
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Innovate. A couple doesn’t have to stick with what
the couple onscreen is doing. If they feel like engaging in their own brand of
sensual activity, or if they start out imitating the couple onscreen but go in
a totally new direction, so much the better!
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Ignore. At some point, many couples get so
wrapped up in themselves that they forget about the video. That’s exactly what
should happen.
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Reflect. Afterwards, it’s a good idea to reflect
on the experience. What things in the video did each partner like and why? What
kind of ideas and thoughts came up while watching? What did each think of the
activities they engaged in while watching?
One of the first keys to better sensual
activity is communication, so freely talking about the experience with explicit
visuals is essential. Also key is for the man to keep his organ in proper
health so that he can better enjoy the experience. Using a top-notch male organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can help in this area. Often, viewing
explicit visuals leads to rather rough sensual activity, which can de-sensitize
the manhood. Using a crème with acetyl L-carnitine, a neuroprotective
ingredient, can help in this area. It’s also ideal if the selected crème
contains L-arginine, an ingredient that boosts nitric oxide production, which
in turn keeps the blood flowing more easily to the member – something that any
man benefits from!
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
manhood health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.