Open mind for long term relation

You found a girl or boy looking attractive you reach her/him talk with her and wonder can she be your Gf/BF? That’s most of us do. We feel an attraction for physical appearance. If you are having a lucky day you might get a perfect partner through it but not all days are lucky days so you should consider several points before starting a new relationship.  Like Jamie Hirsch mention in her book that young adults under 18-23 years of age get mostly attracted with each other basis on height, voice and physical appearance without considering several other factors and that is the wrong thing you do.

These days 40-50% of peoples in the USA are getting separation or divorce and this is really bad for our new generations. A child needs both mother and father to live a happy life and if one took out the life would not be as good as it could be. Adults should consider their child while having separation because all their actions can impact their children heavily.  

I think there are many factors that should be kept in mind while developing a relationship. Few of them are

1. Develop Chemistry: Don’t rush to get involved in the relation it might be that the person you are about to get in relation is the best person in the world to you but take out sometime and see if he really a guy or girl you understand you and you can run with him/her for a long run.
2. Sincerity: I’m sorry to say but the internet and society are full of cheating stories which are not good and with cheating, one person is getting hurt a lot. That person you love from bottom of your heart is not sincere with you is a nightmare and if you don’t want to experience this nightmare then first find sincerity in your partner.
3. Love and Care: A child needs care from his mother and father, an adult needs care from their partner and old peoples needs their child's care. So the love and care part carries through whole life.
4. Truthful person: A person who is not honest with you cannot love you because he/she does not consider you worthy of sharing things. A good-looking guy promises to marry you but that was all lie and was said to get you towards one night stand would you like to go in that relationship? I probably won’t.

Like said before there are several factors that should be kept in mind before getting yourself involved in the relationship. Getting a perfect partner that promise to get old with you is a big blessing from God and God has given us a powerful sense to use it while getting yourself involved in anything.