Think Your Email's Getting Delivered?

Posted by Karen Weir
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Jun 12, 2007
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Think You're Getting Your Email?

Do you use AOL, RR, yahoo, hotmail, cox, comcast, or yahoo for you business email? Do you send out email from any of those servers? If you answered yes, you may be surprised to know that not all of your mail is being delivered all the time. You get some of your mail, some of your mail goes out, so you *think* it all does, but it doesn't...

How can that be?Well, it started a while back - and its only getting worse. You may have heard rumblings about there being talk for charging a fee to send out emails; that seemed to be the beginning. In what consumers believed to be protection from spam, ISPs and free email providers created, what some refer to as, email extortion. Mail going out in large quantities is being blocked by ISPs and free email providers.

There are some theories on why this is happening. One theory is that the email providers are beginning a campaign to charge large servers to get the mail delivered. This seems to be a valid theory based on the fact that in early 2006 AOL announced that America Online is phasing out its Enhanced Whitelist, replacing the bulk-mailing program with Goodmail's Certified Email program. It was reported that the new system will carry a fraction of cent fee to commercial mailers for every email with images and hyperlinks.

A statement released by AOL Postmaster Chales Stiles revealed:
· On April 3, 2006, AOL will change the qualification criteria for the Enhanced Whitelist by lowering the complaint threshold to an extent that will significantly reduce the number of IP addresses included in the program.
· On June 30, 2006, AOL will terminate Enhanced Whitelist privileges. This change will disable links and images by default from all non-certified bulk email viewed from AOL 9.0, AOL webmail and all subsequent client releases. As always, links and images can be enabled by the end user on a message-by-message basis.

There is no question that AOL users are NOT getting their mail. However, many of them believe this is done in their own best interest. Soon after, email going out from large servers to other email clients was not being delivered. If you ever sign up for something that requires verification, and you don't get the verification email - you can bet that it is being blocked by your ISP or free email provider.

When people hear this they often say, "well I always check my spam folder". That's great, and some of your mail will actually make it there, but some won't. That is not blocked - it is sorted. There is a difference, and not a subtle one. When your email provider sorts your mail for you, they will put email delivered from a larger server , and those that contain some of the words and phrases determined to be spammy, into your spam folder. You may not consider it spam, but if it meets that criteria, it gets "sorted" to your spam folder. Not a big deal. You can mark it not spam and get it delivered to your inbox next time.

The big deal is the one that doesn't meet the criteria for sorting, but rather, exceeds the threshold (which could be based solely on the amount of outgoing mail from the server), it gets trashed. Never goes to your inbox, you may never even know that it attempted to!

I'm not ok with this. The average person thinks that they are being protected from spam, but are they? If all that is required to get your bulk mail through an ISP is money, could spammers not pay to get their spam through, while the legitimate marketer attempting to send you a verification email for something you actually requested, gets trashed? How is the consumer protected? Quite simply put, they are not.

Would we tolerate our snail mail being dealth with in this manner? In some instances it would be nice I suppose, if for instance the post office blocked all mail going out from large credit card companies. I'm sure they'd find another way to get your bill out, but seriously, we would not tolerate it. I get a lot of spam in my real mailbox too, and nobody seems to want to "protect" me from that!

Don't get me wrong, I don't like spam either, but this is not the way to deal with it. In my opinion, we should let the recipient determine what is and what is not spam. I prefer to make the determination for myself. If its garbage, I'll trash it. If it's spam, I'll block the sender. I don't need spam assasin or my ISP making those kinds of decisons for me. Simple isn't it? I wish I had that much control over the mail box on my front step!

What is interesting also, is the people who seem defensive about the issue. When told that their ISP is blocking mail, some will deny the issue stating that they know they are getting their mail, and that their mail is going out. For the most part they don't understand what is actually occurring, and once they do, they begin to pay closer attention, and eventually figure out the truth.

There are some solutions. Gmail, thus far, seems to be good about delivering all the mail. Some hosting servers are pretty good as well (GoDaddy isn't one of them). APSense creators came with an excellent solution for its members - the desktop publisher. Desk View is another system that utilizes the desktop publishing. You can put a message box on your site, and when your customer sends a message it is delivered directly to your desktop. If that person is also a deskview user, you can reply right back to his/her desktop, otherwise they can leave you their email address or telephone number.

I'd like to put email service providers out of business using the desktop publishers, and while this is probably the way of the future... we aren't quite there yet. If anyone has ideas on how we can eliminate spam assasins and email extortion tactics, I'd be very interested in hearing your thoughts.

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Happy Emailing!

Karen Weir

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Nathan Ramsey
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My First Website http://nathanramsey2.googlepages.com/freeresponsiveglobaladvertising

Dec 23, 2007 Like it
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Valerie Hasara
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Marketing, Web Designer, Owner

I run email out of my own server – this just means I get to look in on the deliver and what really comes and goes. Yahoo does not deliver. It is a big problem and only getting bigger.

That is why companies are looking to different solutions like the desk top mailer here at Apsense.

Aug 22, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

And Now... Google has a solution! Remember that DeskTop Publishing tool I mentioned... it's here...

http://www.elertgadget.com/pubregister.php?ref=karenweir&campid=50

Aug 1, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

In two years, I have not experienced it. I've never had a spam complaint against me. Maybe its the LOA. In fact, I'm sure of it.

My auto reply does more than "reverse" market. It lets people emailing me know that I received their email... since ISPs are so choosey about what gets through.

~ Karen ~

Jul 31, 2007 Like it
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Eric Smith
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Online Professional

As mentioned in another group, what about in the case where you have responded to SPAM, therefore accepting the email only to have the recipient of YOUR "reverse" email accuse you of SPAM ?

Jul 31, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

If they weren't coming, I wouldn't reverse market them! LOL... My preference would be that spam doesn't exist, but it does, and as long as email exists, it always will.

I can stop blatent spam from getting into my inbox (and I do) but blocking them. Problem solved. The only intent of this article was to get word out that email is not being delivered, ISPs claims to be out to stop spam are BS at worst, ineffective at best, and that the ONLY solution is to let individuals decide what is and

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Eric Smith
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Online Professional

Hey Karen,

...when i changed the mail servers from mail.myISP.com to mail.mydomain.com i started getting twice as much mail as i was getting...

Yeah, they keep coming until they start to drip...

My personal preference is to do something towards stopping them...
Your preference seems to be to reverse market to them....

That doesn't make either of us right or wrong... just different in our approaches...

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

Can you explain how you know your email from your own domain is being delivered EVERY time? Or that you are receiving what is being sent EVERY time?

Sure, you can report the obvious spam, but every notice they keep coming anyway? That's cuz they paid to get whitelisted. Your reports may cause some delay, but they will get delivered.

~ Karen ~

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Eric Smith
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Online Professional

I think when you get 10 emails in the same day from someone trying to flog Viagra, most people would be confident knowing they knew what they were sending. And if they don't then someone should tell them.

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

I would NEVER report spam because I know that a high percentage of the people doing it, don't know they are.

But no, it isn't a question of yes I want it or no I don't want it. It is a matter of let me decide what is and isn't spam. If I opt in to receive your newsletter, by gosh I want to receive it! Do you want your postal service to start making these decisions for you as well? To save money? So if you receive mail from someone who sends alot of mail... oh let's say Sears... the post

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Eric Smith
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Online Professional

For sure, i'm not denying that ISP's could handle things better.

In many cases they will block emails to save them money.

But, to a degree, ISP's can justify this by the cost of handleing Millions of SPAM emails each day, whether they were sent to the addresse or not.

And fair enough - They could give people the option. Yes I want SPAM. No I do not want SPAM.

But logically, in the whole sceam of things who does want it - except of course for the occasional reverse marketer ;o)

W

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

But Eric, what about providers accepting payment to whitelist a bulk server? And just for the sake of argument, let's assume that you are right. Do you need your ISP to make this determination FOR you? Or would you prefer that they go ahead and sort your mail - put what their robots have determined to be spam in your spam folder, and let YOU decide? That's what G-mail does. Works like a charm.

It's an ineffective method, and more than that, it is not at all the intent. Call it a Conspir

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Eric Smith
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Online Professional

IMO...

I think SPAM is the largest reason Emails are blocked by ISP's. Its getting harder and harder for ISP's to determine what is or isn't spam so legitimate emails are being blocked or flagged as potential spam even though they are legitimate or "opt-in" emails.

Spammers are now using images to hide their text and using subject lines that look like legitimate emails. ISP's are now catching on to this and will often block emails with images an attachments or emails that simply "look" dod

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Candice Hampton
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Accounting

Hi Karen,
what I understand about your post is not about
spam marketing per say, but about what the isp's are doing
with peoples emails, for their own agenda.

I am a network marketer on a very large, but tightly knit team. Our team
leaders send out emails to everyone keeping them updated
on events and schedules. I know for a fact that many don't get
their updates. We have all our new members get gmail accounts
when they join now because they don't block like others do.

Lifestyl

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

I don't condone or support spam either! LOL

But I do understand that I'm not going to stop it, so I deal with it in a constructive way, but that has NOTHING to do with email not being delivered. We are talking two different things here. Email being blocked by ISPs has nothing to do with spam, and in fact real spammers can get their mail through, while you may not.

I use many methods to market - email is only one, and reverse marketing is not what I call one of my "marketing strategies"

Jul 28, 2007 Like it
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Eric Smith
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Online Professional

I guess we have different opinions on how and what to market. But thats a good thing. If everyone used the same marketing methods we would be overlaping everything onto everyone. That logically wouldn't work.

Personally i don't condone or reverse market to spam. I don't own, market or recommend FFA pages or any form of bulk submission. My thoughts are that supporting these industries only increases the problem.

I build my own lists using lead capture pages (like apsense A.B.C). I also dev

Jul 27, 2007 Like it
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Karen Weir
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Local Internet Advertising Consultant

Well, no replying to what we perceive to be unsolicited email does not perpetuate the problem. The problem is not really spam at all. It is the service providers blocking. The assumption (wrong I should point out), is that your ISP is protecting you from spam when they block larger servers from mailing.

Some, however, will accept payment from the larger server to get the mail through. You see, your ISP really doesn't care about spam. Under those rules, true spammers can pay to get thei

Jul 23, 2007 Like it
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Eric Smith
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Online Professional

Hi Karen,

Yes, Spam ruins a lot of things for a lot of people and businesses.

The spam itself is not the problem, its the backend problems that exist BECAUSE of Spam, like not getting emails sent or received. If SPAM didn't exist, mail would be delivered as normal.

In one of your Blogs you mentioned you love spam because you "reverse market" to them. I guess this reverse marketing could be as detrimental to mail programs banning certain IP's as the original SPAM itself since the mail pr

Jul 23, 2007 Like it
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